First and foremost, being sexy is not just looking sexy; it is feeling sexy!
Sexy means different things to different people, but all that matters is how YOU feel. You walk it, talk it, flaunt it, BE YOU!
For me, feeling confident is feeling sexy, not just confident in my appearance but every aspect of my life. Yes, I love to glam up and flaunt it all, and that comes from loving myself so much that I don’t care about anyone else’s opinion of me. Never dim your shine because the glare is in someone’s eyes! To feel confident, you must first feel good. Feeling good can be achieved in many ways, such as feeling healthy, comfortable, energized, etc.
I believe that when you feel good inside, it shows on the outside, and that gets transferred to everyone you meet. So in the spirit of sharing, I thought I would share some simple ways I tap into my sexy side.
SET YOUR INTENTION
Setting your intention is one of the best ways to start your day. I never jump out of bed as soon as my alarm goes off; I take a few minutes and talk to the universe. I express gratitude for my life and manifest the day I want; this puts me in a happy mood even before getting out of bed, this gives me a glow that I carry all day. I go to bed and wake up thankful every day.
MOVE YOUR BODY
I make time every day to exercise, no matter how busy I am. I try to get as many steps in as possible. I take the stairs instead of the elevator/ escalator. Exercise energizes me and keeps me fit and healthy. Being fit and healthy motivates me to dress up to look and feel good.
SILKS AND LACES
Nothing makes me feel sexier than the touch of sexy lingerie on my skin. Just the thought of something sexy under my clothing boosts my confidence. I love pairing lingerie with my outfits, an open blazer over a sexy bralette is divine!
DANCE
Yes, this is also moving your body, but this deserves the spotlight. Dancing is my mood enhancer! I dance every chance I get. I dance while I cook, at my desk, in public, any place I hear a good rhythm. I attend dance classes; my favourite is “dancing in heels”. There is something so sexy about dancing in heels and fishnet stockings.
Tip- you can join a Zumba class, those are so much fun!
HAVE A SPA DAY
A spa day is my perfect reset, especially after a long week of work. Getting pampered and relaxing in a heated pool is the rejuvenation I usually need to feel relaxed and ready to take on the world. Making it a girls’ day makes it fun, but solo is just as good.
SPEAK YOUR MIND
Sometimes this can be hard, but it’s usually the best thing you could have done. I speak my mind while being polite, but I make sure I get my point across. Keeping my words in makes me feel angry and defeated. I then carry that around with me, and it is so exhausting and depressing. A clear mind makes you calmer and happier.
CELEBRATE YOU!
I celebrate all my wins and, heck, even some of my failures because I learn from them. I NEVER talk down to myself. I toast myself for growing from the girl I was to the queen I am today. Yes, I am a queen in my castle, and no one can change that. Always hype yourself up, be your biggest fan.
SEX!
Not something some people are comfortable talking about but should be. Sex is stress relief, and being single shouldn’t mean you don’t get that release. Regular sex is a mood booster, and it makes you smile more. No partner? No problem, do it yourself. Who cares what others will say; the benefits are more rewarding. Orgasm = good mood = a happier, confident you!
There are many other ways to feel and be sexy, but do what makes you happy and comfortable.
Disclaimer: This article is written based on my personal experience. I wrote it to share my experience with you and it should serve no other purpose.
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Yes! Confidence is sexy!